WHAT TO TYPE
Be smart. If you don't use privacy settings, anyone has access to your blog or profile, not just people you know.
DON'T
- Post your cell phone number, address, or the name of your school
- Post your friends' names, ages, phone numbers, school names, or addresses
- Add people as friends to your site unless you know them in person
- Communicate with people you don't know
- Give out your password to anyone other than your parent or guardian
- Meet in person with anyone you first "met" on a social networking site
- Respond to harassing or rude comments posted on your profile
- Make or post plans and activities on your site
- Post photos with school names, locations, license plates, or signs
- Post photos with the name of your sports team
- Post sexually provocative photos
- Respond to threatening or negative emails or IMs
DO
- Check the privacy settings of the social networking sites that you use
- Set privacy settings so that people can only be added as your friend if you approve them
- Set privacy settings so that people can only view your profile if you have approved them as a friend
- Remember that posting information about your friends could put them at risk
- Consider going through your blog and profile and removing information that could put you at risk
- Delete any unwanted messages or friends who continuously leave inappropriate comments
- Report comments to the networking site if they violate that site's terms of service
- Save or print questionable activity and include date and time
- Tell your parents or guardian if anything happens online that makes you feel scared, uncomfortable, or confused
WHEN TO TELL
Trust Your Intuition: Always go with your gut feeling, and if something doesn't feel right to you or a friend, report it. You can help stop the online victimization of youth.
BE CAUTIOUS OF
- Anyone you don't know who asks you for personal information, photos or videos
- Unsolicited obscene material from people or companies you don't know
- Misleading URLs on the Internet that point you to sites containing harmful materials rather than what you were looking for
- Anyone who wants to send you photos or videos containing obscene content of youth 18 and younger (The possession, manufacturing, or distributing of child pornography is illegal.)
- Anyone you don't know who asks you to meet them somewhere offline (If the person is an adult this is illegal and they can be charged with a criminal offense called Online Enticement.)
- Threats to your life or safety
- Threats to others
If any of the above happens to you or a friend, tell an adult you trust and report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children's CyberTipline. For additional information on how to be safer online, visit NetSmartz.org.
Source: Tips adapted from "Blog Beware," a publication of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. Read the complete report at NetSmartz.org. © 2006 National Center for Missing & Exploited Children and Boys & Girls Clubs of America. All rights reserved.